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Choreographing Your Own Wedding Dance: A Guide.

Updated: Jun 3, 2023


Well, hello there! Can you feel the excitement bubbling up? The countdown has begun, the wedding bells are nearly within earshot, and the checklist of tasks seems never-ending. Now, there's one little question I've got for you: Have you given a thought to your First Dance yet? Oh, you know, that magical moment when all eyes are on you, the newlyweds, swaying to the rhythm of love? Yep, that's the one.

Well, guess what? We're diving headfirst into the world of wedding dances today. But we're not just talking about any old two-step or foxtrot. We're talking about choreographing your own, personal, toe-tapping, heart-fluttering wedding dance. Hold on to your hats, this is going to be quite a ride!

What's that I hear? A little nervous laughter? A bit of doubt creeping in? Fear not, dear ones. We're in this together, every step, every twirl, every dip. So, ready to waltz into the world of DIY wedding dances? Let's shimmy right in!

The Big Decision: DIY or Professional Help

Alright folks, let's mull over the big decision here, shall we? Are you going to leap headfirst into the world of choreography, or are you considering roping in a pro to guide you through your pirouettes and paso dobles?

Before you start sweating bullets at the thought of inventing dance moves, let's mull over the prospect of professional help. It's kind of like having a personal trainer, except instead of burpees and planks, you get twirls, dips, and potentially some fancy footwork. Intriguing, isn't it?

Let's get one thing straight: seeking professional help isn't an admission of defeat or an indication that you've got two left feet. Nope! It's more like hiring a wedding planner. You have the vision, you know what you want, and they help bring it to life, only with less stress and a whole lot more fun!

You see, dance professionals aren't just well-versed in moves and music. They're like fairy godmothers (or fathers) who sprinkle a little bit of stardust on your dance floor dreams. They guide you, sure, but they also instill confidence, add a dash of excitement, and above all, they help you create a dance that not only looks good but feels good. It's your vision, your style, but with a professional touch.

So, think about it. DIY or professional help? It's your call, just remember: your wedding dance is about you and your love story, however, you choose to tell it!

The Upsides and Downsides of Choreographing Your Own Dance

So, you're considering taking the reins and choreographing your own wedding dance? Let me tell you, it's quite the thrill. Picture this: you're both the director and the star of your very own dance production. You're setting the stage, you're writing the script, you're creating the magic.

The upside? It's all you, baby! Every spin, every foot tap, every beaming smile - it's a reflection of you and your partner's unique love story. There's something truly special about that, right? It's a dance filled with inside jokes, special memories, and perhaps even that goofy move you both do when your favorite song comes on the radio.

But let's hit the pause button. Because while choreographing your own dance has its charm, there are a few possible missteps. Much like assembling a particularly complicated piece of IKEA furniture, it can be a bit puzzling. There's the matter of syncing steps, picking a suitable rhythm, and let's not forget the potential for the occasional toe being stepped on. It's a bit of a jigsaw puzzle, really.

But isn't life all about those magical moments we create amidst the little messes? Whether you ace your steps or miss a beat, remember, it's your dance, your rhythm, your moment.


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Key Steps to Choreographing Your Own Wedding Dance

Roll up your sleeves, because we're about to dive into the nitty-gritty of DIY dance choreography! Yes, it's a bit of a journey, kind of like making your own sourdough starter. It needs time, patience, a bit of science, and a whole lot of love.

We'll start by selecting your perfect song, something that gives you butterflies every time you hear the first notes. Next, we'll get our dancing shoes on and explore different dance styles. Foxtrot or salsa, anyone?

Then comes the real fun part – designing your own dance steps. We're talking signature moves, twirls, dips, and more. And last, but certainly not least, practice, practice, practice! Like fine wine, a good dance routine only gets better over time.

Ready to cha-cha your way through wedding dance choreography? Let's get this party started!

Choosing Your Song

Ah, the sweet symphony of choosing your wedding dance song. This isn't just any tune, it's THE tune. The one that will forever remind you of that magical moment on the dance floor. Kind of like your very own theme song, don't you think?

Choosing the right song is a bit like finding the perfect wedding dress. It needs to fit you, tell your story, and make you feel utterly fabulous. From the classics that never go out of style (hello, Frank Sinatra) to something a bit more modern or unconventional (Ed Sheeran or even Metallica, anyone?), the world is your musical oyster.

Your song could be a golden oldie that makes your hearts flutter or perhaps a track that captures a special memory. Maybe it's the song that was playing during your first date or the tune that became 'your song' over the years. Whatever you choose, it should make you want to dance even if nobody's watching.

Remember, just like your love story, your song is uniquely yours. So, whether it's jazz, pop, rock, or country, let the music play!

Deciding on the Dance Style

So, you've got your song, and it's a corker! But now comes the question: How do you want to move to it? Are you thinking of a classic waltz? Or perhaps a sultry tango? Maybe you're tempted to break the mold with a lively jive?

Deciding on your dance style is like choosing your wedding menu. Just as you'd pair a robust red wine with a hearty main course, you want to pick a dance style that complements your song. A slow, romantic ballad might call for a graceful rumba, while a peppy pop number could have you rocking a fun-filled salsa.

Remember, there's no rule book here, folks. Your dance floor, your rules! This is your chance to mix it up and let your personalities shine. You might surprise your guests, and yourselves too. So, whether you glide, twist, or even do the floss, just make sure you're having a ball!.

Crafting Your Dance Moves

Now, we've come to the meat and potatoes of the process: crafting your dance moves. You've got your song, you've decided on your dance style, and now it's time to design your masterpiece. It's a bit like creating your signature dish, with a pinch of this move and a dash of that one.

Think about your favorite moments in the song. Are there any lyrics that spark a memory or an emotion? These can be great spots to emphasize with a particular move or a dramatic pause. You can also consider including a signature move - something that really screams 'you'. Maybe it's a goofy wiggle you both do when you're happy, or a twirl that never fails to make you giggle.

And let's not forget the grand finale! How do you want your dance to end? A dip, a twirl, or a dramatic lift? The sky's the limit! Just remember, safety first! We want applause at the end, not a trip to the ER.

Practice Makes Perfect

So, you've designed your dream dance. You've got your steps, your twirls, your dips, and your finale. Now, it's time to practice, practice, and practice some more. Much like learning to play an instrument or mastering a new language, repetition is key!

Don't worry about getting it right the first time. Even Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers had to start somewhere! Use your practice time as a way to bond, to laugh, and to create memories. You'll not only learn a dance but also create countless moments of joy and laughter together.

The aim of the game here is not perfection, but connection. So, let loose, have fun, and don't forget to twirl!


Choreographing your own wedding dance is more than just creating a routine. It's about telling your unique love story, marking your rhythm, and dancing to your own beat. Whether you choose to go the DIY route or seek professional help, just remember one thing - this is YOUR dance. As long as you're moving together and having fun, you're doing it right.

So, are you ready to put on your dancing shoes and create your own magic? The dance floor awaits you, my friends. Here's to a spectacular first dance and even more spectacular life together. Waltz on!

At Bravo Dance Studio, your journey to a phenomenal wedding dance is our joyful mission! Having coached countless brides, grooms, and their beloved parents, we can assure you that learning to glide gracefully around the dance floor is not only possible but also a whole lot of fun!
Under the patient guidance of our skilled instructors, your wedding dance lessons will be a delightful, stress-busting part of your wedding preparation. We're here to assist you in selecting or trimming the perfect music and in choreographing an unforgettable first dance that captures your unique love story.
Don't sweat it if you've got two left feet or if you've never danced before; we're experts in turning beginners into dance floor dynamos. We'll guide you gently through every step, every twirl, and every dip. In no time, you'll be all set to astonish your guests with a dance routine that was crafted just for you.
From simple, elegant steps to an elaborate routine complete with spins, dips, and stunning poses - we're ready to transform you into the John Travolta and Olivia Newton-John of wedding dances. Dance with us, and we promise you'll fall in love with the magic of movement. So, shall we dance?


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